I love my girlfriend can anyone help me? part 2?

so the fact of the matter is... i dont erase my phone history - msg, calls (received/called). I have nothing to hide... and when she notices a name she doesnt recognize... she automatically umes that there is a problem... what can i say to make her feel secured and build that trust? knowing what the problem is... how can i resolve this? how can i get past her trust issues and let her know im not that guy... that im different... obviously she had some bad relationships in the past... and so did i... we learn from our mistakes and move on... maybe her previous experiences had made her realize that all men are , but that doesnt give her the right to ess all situation based on her history. I get it... it is hard for women to digest that but y? why is it so hard to believe that you are being loved right now... that unconditional love does exist in your life and no matter how much pain you have felt in the past... we are different from all those s and you do not have to doubt that... why can't you believe when we tell you that we love you... and there isnt anything i would want more than to be with you... no cheesy lines... nothing we have seen in a book or poem... it is what it is and there isnt any other word phase other than "i love you" - but you ladies tend to listen with a filter in your ears. you tend to only pick out specific words or phrases not knowing our true intentions. you only hear what you want to hear... hell... you already even know the answer before you ask the question... so how can i show u that all this is for real... that i have no time what so ever to look or think about anything else... that i love you... how can someone get past the obvious tension by misconception and continue the relationship with the emotions that we had initially???